posted 03-15- 11:35 AM
Well when i now have started - i must tell you the whole truth. To my bretheren in arms so you know how to adress a beautiful swedish girl in a manner who makes it possible for you to get some intrest from her.. to your person....In fact we have more words for adressing persons before we speek to them - and also when we speek about them in 3 person.
In swedish above i should have used the word "ni" (you) then all swedish persons had understood i talked about two or more persons.
If i used the word "Ni" (you) it could have been a polite adressing singularis or pluralis. In the context everyone had presumed it was two persons because it had been most polite.
BUT "Ni" can also be used when i talk to someone - and if its a older person - he or she maybe was thinking iīm polite to him... BUT it can also be a adressing making he or she isnīt my equal. It depends...
If i had used the word "du" in example above it should have been clear to a swedish person - i was talking about Casualty only.
If i had used the word "Du" it had been a polite adressing....But some older had thinking i was impolite. A lot of persons who get adressed by "Ni" and think itīs impolite because itīs shows some distance. They would like to hear "Du" because it shows respect - no distance.
If i have higher rank in the army it should be impolite to adressing me with "du" in speaking and "Du" in writing. But less impolite if i used "Du" (as general rule.. and if you are unsure during all circumstances in army or as civilian ... use "Du").It should be "Ni" as rule as most. But it depends on what kind of person the higher ranked officer is. He could think you making some distance if you using "ni" in speaking or "Ni" in writing and it is because you think you have higher social rank. But during in some cases you must also write "du" for showing you are like brothers.
There maybe are some more about this.... also but you was intrested in swedish girls ? Wasnīt you ?
Well... you see you probably havenīt any chance against me.... but if you try i will give you this tips.
I hear often some form other countries learned some swedish like
- Hej du vackra svenska flicka ! Hello you beautiful swedish girl ! They have seen to mush "swedish films" and are really out in a bad mess....
They are in fact telling the girl they maybe admiring her beautiness - but are not intrested to get closer... they are telling her - she is on some distance... bad start....bad luck ... some laughting and some eyes but you donīt get any trust in them. You also tell her you think she is a "bad girl" easy to get into bed with. Then you have lost als chances .. didnīt you know that ? To bad for you !!!
If you must say something stupid like that above - say only Hello beautiful girl.... or "Hej vackra flicka ! or better Hello beautiful lady ! Hej vackra Dam ! then you tell her you think she is beutiful but also shows her respect - but not taking any distance from her....
and if you then also have some luck !
BUT - there are someting else - most in other countries also donīt understand except in the Scandinavian countries. There are a tradition of strong women since wikings in sweden. The women have always choosen their own men and also knows they are proud and beutiful and can compete with any man. That is often missunderstood - and mixed up with the "sexual liberation" who lot of men in other countries thinks is connected with Scandinavian girls. They only forget their own behaviour - symbolizing the strengthness, proudness, independence and manhood they think they have. If they donīt can get a swedish girl intrested .. i think they must practising little more... 
If you officer and pilot have any luck ...PLEASE TELL US other pilots - exhausted after all these fights - so we also have something to our dreams....
Good luck !
[This message has been edited by Barcat26AC (edited 03-15-2001).]